I recently retired from a demanding profession in which I exercised a lot of authority. On the outside, I looked like a mature woman who “had it all together”. However, I am actually a PTSD survivor, which has led me from one unhealthy relationship to another in my life. I’ve been in therapy, but was still unsure how to develop healthy dating skills.
Working with Christine, I immediately experienced the skills a dating coach can offer (although Christine was more of a whole life coach to me). What a difference she's made in my life! She listens with knowledge, understanding, and compassion. She helped me verbalize feelings that were holding me back. She introduced me to “tools" that I can now access for the rest of my life.
If you struggle with making meaningful connections, the answer begins by looking within yourself. When you understand who you are and what you desire in a romantic partner, only then will you find your true match. Christine earned my respect and gratitude. I’m actually looking forward to the next part of my life. ~ KM
Christine started a meetup group as Covid shut down the world. It was for 50+ singles interested in dating. I had been on dates but dating was not working well.
I quickly realized how out of touch I was. A widower after 32 years of good marriage, I had dated a bit but wasn't good dating material – there was more internal work to do.
Christine’s meetups were insightful. I heard others talk about dating and dating apps. It helped me identify what I want in a relationship, what I bring to a relationship, and what my deal breakers are. I had to look deep into myself to discover who I am and who I want to be.
Because of Christine’s meetups, I’ve been in two relationships. The first with a wonderful woman who wasn’t right for me. I’m currently in a loving supportive relationship. Because of Christine's meetups, I am far more aware of where things are in my current relationship. ~ M
Christine's meetups have changed my life! I've listed some of the many things I learned about dating and relationships there (I'm a widower):
(1) You need to put yourself out there. It’s work.
(2) Meetups and volunteer groups are good neutral places to meet like-minded women.
(3) A coffee isn’t a date, it's getting to know somebody. (And a lot of coffee meets don’t work out.)
(4) I am slow to give my heart. Intimacy and love come slowly as does my trust.
(5) Look for a friend, not a date, when looking for a significant other.
(6) I live a life without much fear, but many people don’t. I learned that many people fear the unknown or change. There are folks who won’t speak their minds due to fear.
(7) I am not conflict averse and that upsets many people.
(8) When I am animated on a point, others may see it as upset.
(9) Women worry a lot about safety. This was new to me and changed my world. ~ MM
"Thanks for coaching me through my dating experience! It wouldn’t have been as fun without your guidance and support. A widow after 25 years of marriage, I had no idea how much dating had changed. I tried an online dating app, did not have a good experience, and gave up until I started working with you. You helped me understand who I was. I had to relearn what I valued and how to communicate it as I am also an introvert which didn’t help! After a few sessions with you, I went back online and the experience was much better. I enjoyed meeting people and, even if we were not a match, it was fun. I now know I simply wasn’t ready the first time I tried online dating. Thank you for all your help. I now have a wonderful man in my life!" ~ Susan
"With Christine’s guidance, I was able to break up with the alcoholic man I lived with for over four years. This man had many wonderful attributes, which made it hard to break the tie. Christine helped me understand that when a person makes it clear they’re not going to change, you either have to accept them as they are and live with it or remove yourself from the situation and move on. It’s painful but freeing to know I had the strength to take myself out of a bad situation in a kind way, to let that person go on with his life as he sees fit, and to continue my own life in a more productive and loving way. Christine is caring and at the same time helps you see clearly what the next steps are to change your life. Without her this would have been impossible to deal with." ~ DJ
Thank you for helping me find a committed relationship. I thought I was done after my wife passed. In fact, both M and I thought this would never happen again. After being single and having things your own way (3 years for me, 7 for her), she and I were wary of revealing ourselves to each other. The desire to give and receive love overcame the resistance to commitment. And yes, there were moments when nothing was working but we finally decided relationship was more important than our so-called freedom. I still mull over the notes I took from our sessions and might not be where I am now without the nuggets I got from you." ~ Allen
Christine gives the best advice!! With her help, I found the love of my life. We are in our 80's. We laugh daily, eat healthy, and thank God every day for the blessings we have. ~ B
"I wanted to let you know how helpful your posts have been. I lost my wife of 42 years. Reading your posts reassures me that I'll be okay and the processes I'm going through are normal. Thank you." ~ Ken
"Consider adding life coach to your credentials, because that is a broader yet accurate definition of the wonderful life-changing services you offer!" ~ KB
"I want to thank you for your presentation last week, and to let you to know I had feedback from women raving about your talk. We all appreciated you taking the time to share your wealth of information." ~ Kay
"Although I see myself as warm, smart, and successful, I had years of first dates with wonderful men that almost never turned into second dates. I hired Christine to help me figure out why. Within two months of one-on-one work, I had my answer. Christine was direct, insightful and specific. She gave me the guidance I needed to find the right dates. It wasn’t hard – I just didn’t know how. My dates are now satisfying and recurring! Christine is magic.” ~ Susan
"As a man, I was initially reluctant to engage in counseling, but after setbacks in my relationship I sought advice. Christine was recommended and it was without doubt one of my better decisions. With her help I was able to see and bridge the differences in my relationship. With my new perspectives, I saw the positive in things where previously the focus was negative. My relationship has blossomed (without Christine, it probably would have failed). Christine is sympathetic to her client's needs. Her knowledge and diplomacy are so valuable. I highly recommend her services!" ~ David
"Christine is absolutely amazing. It's clear she has a passion for coaching and knows how to listen and highlight those things we might miss on our own. Even when she tells you things you might not want to hear, you're glad she has... her delivery is full of compassion. If you want to move forward in life and love, I highly recommend Christine. She'll get you on the right path.” ~ Cija Black
"Thanks for the calls, tips and insights... I'm excited to learn the new way of communicating and enjoying the fruits of it. I love this trip of self and relationship discovery and feel lucky to have you on my side." ~ M.
"Christine has an amazing insight into what makes men and women tick, and relationships work (or not work!). She worked with me on my level, and intuitively understood where I was in my relationship world. Her ideas were easy to understand and implement." ~ Laurie
"You're a hard working, creative, intelligent, caring and extraordinary person. I refer you to all my single friends!" ~ LeeAnn